The Ideal vs. Reality or Managing Expectations in Motherhood
A Series of Psychological Reflections on Motherhood
Welcome back to our journey through the psychological landscape of motherhood.
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This series is written from my experience as a mother and my ongoing studies in psychology. My goal is to normalize motherhood's varied challenges and joys, from fertility issues to navigating global crises. I hope to create a space where we all feel understood and empowered.
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Today, I have chosen a topic that resonates deeply with many of us: the gap between the ideal of motherhood and its often messy reality. As a mother of three wonderful children(currently 9, 7, and 4) I've had my fair share of encounters with this disparity. I will share some of my experiences and insights with you.
The societal ideal vs. my reality
When I first became a mother, I had a picture-perfect image in my mind, which had been fueled by Instagram photos and media stories of motherhood bliss.
I imagined serene days filled with giggles, educational activities, and Instagram-worthy moments. Reality, however, had different plans.