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Self-Sacrificial Love and Mental Health in Motherhood

Self-Sacrificial Love and Mental Health in Motherhood

A Series of Psychological Reflections on Motherhood

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Gabriela Trofin-Tatár
Mar 04, 2025
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Welcome back to our journey through the psychological landscape of motherhood.

Below, you can read the previous newsletter in this series:

Maternal Psychology: The Transition into Motherhood

Maternal Psychology: The Transition into Motherhood

Gabriela Trofin-Tatár
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Feb 18
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A Personal Note on This Series

This series is written from my experience as a mother and my ongoing studies in psychology. My goal is to normalize motherhood's varied challenges and joys, from fertility issues to navigating global crises. I hope to create a space where we all feel understood and empowered.

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In this newsletter, we'll talk about:

  • The concept of self-sacrificial love in motherhood

  • Personal experiences with burnout from constant self-sacrifice

  • Strategies to break the cycle of self-sacrifice

  • The impact of religious and cultural legacy on self-sacrifice in parenting

  • Reframing self-care as an act of love


Dear parents,

Do you remember when we thought love meant giving everything we had? Yeah, about that... What I do remember is learning this habit, seeing it, and inheriting it from the women before me. I became aware of it in the past few years, and it was life-changing. A change of mindset that should have happened earlier to save me from the pain of giving so much of myself while I could have lived a healthier life mentally.

So let's talk about the elephant in the room:

🥺 Self-sacrificial love in motherhood🥺

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